Pray This Prayer With Me: Let This Day Be The Advent Of . . .



Let this day be the advent/the arrival of people wanting to do something good with their life.

For the person who has lived solely to please others, including people who can’t be pleased, let this day be the advent of the feeling that their life finally belongs to them.

Not the next day or the following week or a future year, but this day – let this day be the day we face what we have ignored to the detriment of ourselves and the detriment of others.

And yes, this day can be the advent of listening to those who have been most silenced by society.

May this Advent season be saturated with life and world transforming advents.



Pray this Prayer With Me – Inspired by Marcella Althaus-Reid, author of The Queer God and Indecent Theology

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Allow us to look up Your skirt and see that You do not have the male package.

Enable us to admit that  You are a stranger at the gates of our economic order.

Broaden our minds to understand the oddity of Jesus as a Messiah against the normal or common sense.

Give us the stamina to show our backside to the resistance to the dictatorship of corporations.

Lead us not into the act of forgetting or the desirability of denying.


Pray This Prayer With Me: The Dead or Dying Time

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For some of us it’s the dead or dying time, which is the time when a lot of our loved ones are either dead or dying.

It’s difficult.  It’s depressing.  It’s agonizing.

We are grateful for life, but understand if we would have drawn up life differently than you created it to be.

There’s not much else to say or pray.



Writing Prayers Without Underwear And Looking Up God’s Skirt (In memory of Marcella Althaus-Reid)

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Marcella Althaus-Reid

The most important theologian in the last 50 years has been Marcella Althaus-Reid. Marcella grew up in Buenos Aires, where she graduated with a BA in Theology from the ISEDET ecumenical theological institution in Buenos Aires. Marcella engaged in community and social projects in impoverished neighborhoods of Buenos Aires.

Due to her experience and accomplishments, Althaus-Reid was invited to Scotland, where she worked in poor neighborhoods of Dundee and Perth. She completed her doctorate in 1994 at the University of St Andrews, Scotland. Althaus-Reid wrote, among others, two very important books: Indecent Theology: Theological Perversions in Sex, Gender and Politics and The Queer God. Her theology was a theology informed by the margins of sexual, gender, and economic exclusion. Her theology shocks and startles while it dismantles the decent theologies of the rich and comfortable and of those in power.

Althaus-Reid died on February 20, 2009, in Edinburgh, Scotland, of breast cancer. The following prayer is written in her memory. Althaus-Reid encouraged us to look up the skirt of God and to take off our underwear while doing theology. She was not being cute. Althaus-Reid was stripping away our decent theologies which undergird the oppressive powers of heterosexual orthodoxy, whiteness and global capitalism.



We have looked up your skirt


and discovered you are not a heterosexual HE.

We have looked up the skirt of your creations and learned there is far more diversity than any of us ever imagined.

We have looked up the skirts of the church and of governments and the smell is offensive, not the smell of life or the smell of community.

We have taken off our underwear while praying and accepted, perhaps for the first time, who we were created to be. Shame has been dumped and dumped and dumped on us but in our nakedness we now refute such shame and claim the image of God within us and in our God-created sexual orientation and gender identity. No more shall we be other than who we are.

We have taken off our underwear, God, and tears have formed over rejection, years lost, relationships ended or strained.

What has kept us sane God is that we have looked up your skirt and taken off our underwear and known love and acceptance, love and acceptance that have made all the difference.